dannyboy111

I am worried about some symptoms i am experiencing.
I am in a steady relationship since over a year back and well heres my story.
Me and my girlfriend where having sex and it was drier then normal,(we were using a condom) and the next day it looked as if some skin was coming off at the top of the penis, kinda as if it was peeling. It also hurt/itch when i urinate. This was about 4-5 days ago. Anyway, after two days it was healed up again, the skin but a patch of the skin was really red and sore and it still hurt when i urinated. This was about 3 days ago when i noticed it and i have been using lotion on the area for 2 days now and well the redness seems to have gone down its not as red as before it looks more like the coulor of the rest of the surrounding skin.
However it still hurts and itches when i urinate and it is still sore.
Im just worried I dont know what it is or why i got it never had anything like that on my penis before and it is worrying me it still hurts.
It hurts the worst at the top of the penis wen i urinate at the hole, but also sometimes in the shaft itself, its more an itch then burning though.

What I am worried about though is, I have also had a rash on my inner upperthighs for a long time since before i even met my girlfriend so probably a year and a half. It doesnt hurt or anything its just itchy and red but completely painless.
I am worried cause the symptoms sounds like herpes to me.
I have only had unprotected sex once in my whole life and that was early in 2002 in january so its been a year and a half now, and that was aone night stand.
It was stupid but it happend.
Im just worried cause I got the rash a couple of months after and i just started thinking about it now.
Like the rash is painless it just ithes sometimes, i dont have any blisters or anything like that.
Im just worried now cause some of the symptoms sound familiar.
I talked to my girlfriend and she said she really doubts thats what it is.
The rash has always only been on my upper inner thighs never on my genitals by the way.
Can someone please give me their input?

Thank you.