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uncontrollable come shots · 10-28-2003, 05:12 PM

what's crackilackin ya'll? well, i've been with my lady for 5 yrs. stayed faithfull since day one, not even talkin to other chicks. so, we finally broke it off, we weren't getting along so we called it quits. now i've heard that a lot of stds don't have symptoms for quite some time, and other scenarios tell different. well, anyways, i'm scared ****less about this std/aids/hiv test. shakin in my timbo boots, my question is, will the test's show when and who got the std first? and if so, what if we had sex everyday?...their was no stoppin, we lived together the whole time, and we did it like rabbits, every morning, every nooner, and everynight when we got home, and right before we went to bed. so, if she was cheating, we were having sex everyday, wouldn't it be hard to determine who got what first? or does it go by hour? oh yeah, we did it on her rag too, condoms of course.

aab77 · 10-28-2003, 11:53 PM

definitely does not go by hour... hopefully neither of you have anything, but if so you probably wont be able to tell where it came from unless you somehow tested everyone else you had ever slept with, and even then it wouldnt be for sure. If you do have something, why does it matter who got it first??

besafe20 · 10-29-2003, 04:31 PM

as far as the hiv test goes there is a way to tell if you were infected in the past 6 months. So for example if you and her tested positive and you find out your infection was in the past 6 months and hers wasn't then she had it first. But seeing how you guys were together for 5 years then chances are they wouldn't be able to tell, unless you managed to go uninfected until recently.