I recently noticed a few bumps along the shaft of my penis that were redish in color. They were never open sores, didn't scab or anything like that. I went to my GP and he said that it looked like herpes. I tested positive for HSV 1, which means nothing because I get cold sores.. I started taking a medication and the marks never went away or changed in 2 months. Fast forward - I was curious so I went to a dermatologist. She seems to think that they are warts, but said they could be herpes and that she needed to do a biopsy to be sure. Here is my predicament. I am in a relationship with a woman that I love. I was screened previously and came back clean for everything. I know that at this point I have something, I just don't know what. How do I break this to her? I didn't knowingly endanger her. At the begining of the relationship I told her I was tested and clean, and I was. I have been faithful and am afraid that I will lose the love of my life over this. How should I have the discussion with her? Please, someone, anyone give their insight, stories, advice. I need it now more than ever. Thank you so much in advance.