omg bro, I think I have the exact same problem as you.... I started noticing problems when I was 16 that my libido was never existent. Unfortunately, it got worse and worse. Now, I am 20 and have no libido- I'm impotent actually!
I'm to the point where
viagra doesn't work.... Like you, I had some frequent urinary problems so I asked my doctor to prescribe me some detrol... I was still 16 at the time and after that, my potency seems to have went nothing but downhill ever since.....
It's hard for me to tell if the detrol actually did this to me or the problem would've occured naturally anyways....
I'm in the world of no answers and doctors aren't helping.... Having ed at 20 is unheard of.....