18 years old and pretty scared!

babygirl20 · 06-03-2005, 02:16 PM

i am 18 years old and have been sort of premiscuous throughout highschool. within the past year i have been with only my boyfriend who i recently found out was cheating on me with probably more than one female. i went to my gyno. to go and get checked out...and it came back i had "trick" and high and low risk dyspasia. i am currently taking aldara for it but am scared i wont be able to have kids in my future (with all the stuff i've done in the past) and scared this wont go away. please help.

Justawondering · 06-03-2005, 03:37 PM

As far as having kids you still should be able to even with dysplasia but I dont understand what you mean by what youve did in the past I need more info there but if its too personal dont worry about it .... Anyway I still think you should be able to have kids..... Good Luck and Keep us posted....

babygirl20 · 06-03-2005, 04:06 PM

justawondering: when i say "what i did in the past" it all started in junior high. i was bulemic and anorexic (both) for only about 7 or 8 months. i then stopped that but in highschool i got chlamidia from someone and got rid of it right away (and my aunt who was unable to have kids said that's why she couldn't have kids)... then at the end of highschool i had a huge drug problem (drug of choice: meth) and that continued on until just 8 months ago (ive been clean for 8 months). also my ex-boyfriend gave me 'tric vaginalis' or whatever and the dysplasia. also he was trying to get me pregnant for about a year and couldn't and i found out this other girl he was trying to get pregnant for about a year didn't get pregnant either. someone i know got pregnant by him about 4 years ago... and she got pregnant within the first month they started messing around. i dont understand this. but i dotn know if these things play a role in my future of having kids. thanks

Justawondering · 06-04-2005, 03:49 AM

sorry I just miss read your question... I think you should be able to have kids... Std's usually only cause infertility when you have them for loooong periods of time without treatment... As far as that guy and getting your pregnant go maybe the girl was more fertile... maybe ovulating it just matters knowing your cycle I think you should be okay tho... Good Luck