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[cram315]

Good news that the police have been working on this case. Do you feel a little bit better? Since she left with an older patient that means they had a plan and it may not be as bleak as we feared. It may be possible that they both felt they didn't need the place any longer and went off to start a clean life. Any new news?

[sad,mum]

hi,sorry havent posted but had ahellish few days and to cap it all computer gone mad,police been superb,finally located her in north wales,with some big time dudefrom rehab ,she is not coming home and she sure has not reached her rock bottom which i will not prevent her from doing,she has not spoken with me,really got frightened when the police asked me if i had an old hairbrush,which i did,and they asked me to take some hair from it and put it in a plastic bag and freeze it in case they needed dna,anyway they ended up busting a door about 2hrs ago and found her,dont know what next but will keep posting and god bless you all you have been my salvation,chef hope some day i am making that sunday lunch for you and cram your son sounds like hes on the narrow round to recovery instead of the big broad wide one to hell,this board reminds that htere are some wonderful people out there,love sad mum

[cram315]

So happy to see you post, kept checking for news and I was getting worried when there wasn't any. Keep us posted. I am glad they found her, I don't understand why the busted down the door.

Chef where are you?

[chefob1]

im hiding.....im aleways taking a look but not necessarily posting......been busy at restaurant...i hate working the 7 day thing...been doin it for a year now...talkin about relapsin material...so many fires to put out and no help/or handicapped individuals...its unbeleivably hard to run a little 80 seat joint like this with only 5 employees that you cant count on.....our lease comes up nov.31 and am wishy/washy about buying the cafe and adjoining property....they want 350,000 and the cafe has to be leveled and so does our cracker cabin we live in....also,been to the doc twice in the last 7 days...have a bad innner/outer eaar infection...taking these huge augmentin pills/plus drops...plus had to hit the dentist...just had major dental surgery a month and a week ago.....needed adjustments on bridges....whats up with your son?

sadmum....glad your daughter is at least alive...i was dreadin the worst at the end there...when its time for her to hit bottom plus down another 40 feet,mayvbe shell come around...gotta go cook,god bless everyone...chef

[cram315]

chef-ahhh normal problems , we don't realize how great normal problems are until we deal with an addiction ourselves or someone elses. Normal problems are good but sorry, your sick. Exciting about the restaurant.

One week and I still don't miss my son. These boards have been a life saver for me, thanks everyone for getting me to this point. You ALL have given me the courage and strength to let go.

The relative that my son was supposed to go visit over the summer, all of a sudden won't return his calls or anyone elses for that matter. My son is hurt. He had big dreams of spending time with this person. Now he thinks no one wants him and that didn't muster sympathy from me, just an "oh well you brought this on yourself".

Son hasn't been able to get to clinic on a regular basis. I don't know what the doseage was but I am going to guess less than 10, his last dose was Sunday and he said yesterday, Tuesday, he wasn't sick yet but was expecting to be by Wednesday. Is it possible that the meth is almost out of his system and he can detox without too much drama?

Where he is living now, he isn't close to any bad influences and the person he is living with would kick him out if they thought he was high. He has to take a lot of different public transportation to get to this area, so I know he isn't down here buying.

Well, so far things have been sane. Sadmum keep us posted. Glad to see you are still with the boards Chef.