Hey lynken, i was getting ready to hit the sack and saw your post.for a guy there is always a fear for some reason when it comes to touchy areas, like prostate exams for instance,very few men get it done at the age of 40+ and thats a fact, unlike women who make it a must for breast exams and have no fear.i think you should drag him in if he is still having the same issues and be more open with you on his health, what would happen in a freak accident when they ask as the do "what medical conditions does he have, drug allergies, medications taken ect...?" its tough not knowing. best of luck. take care ,hyper