Hi KC,
Yes, I was on the shot too, it took 1 year after to get pregnant, but going on the pill helped and I got pregnant only 3months after getting off the pill.
Anyway, You won't just go through hell if you don't take meds, you could die (that's what my doc told me would have happened if I didn't start the cortef), you might do more harm then good. I was in and out of the hospial countless time, on a feeding tube and pic line for fliuds. My doc didn't mension anything about brian defects, but I'm seeing a preinatologist Oct. 12 and I have my first ultrasound tonight, so I'll keep you posted. My keep posted too.
Thanks,
Beth