Frazzled ~ I am glad that you are on your next step of the process. I hope you won't be upset by what I am about to say but a little
RED flag went up when I read your post. Your doctor is absolutely right about avoiding the stimulant meds if your daughter has admitted to alcohol/drug use. And I believe that I already forewarned you about my concerns in regard to that with my own daughter. It is the case of which came first the chicken or the egg....are our daughters using the alcohol/weed to self medicate because of undiagnosed ADD/ADHD or are they abusing drugs wanting to get something more accessible????
Listen to me for a minute. My daughter is very aware of what is out there and what kids are doing (as I am sure yours is as well) and could be quite manipulative which is another thing that is part of her behavior. We use to say that she could be a lawyer because she could convince you that the sky is really purple instead of blue!!
Anyway....when she was IMing with somebody recently (one of her college suitemates) the girl stated that she needed an "Adderall Rush". My daughter has requested to be tested for ADD and I have been concerned about her behavior since she was 14 so her asking for help was a really big thing for us. She seems genuine, however, since seeing that IM and knowing that she is into experimentation I couldn't help but question her motives here.
I did some research and it seems that alot of the ADD stimulants are a big thing with college students. They are a perscription that they can get rather cheaply through perscription plans ( a copay of $10 isn't bad) and they can crush it and inhale it and get themselves a nice high. Also, if kids are hard up for cash I hear that they can get $5/pill and if we have a month's supply that would be $150 or more depending on how it is perscribed!!! And believe me...I can see my daughter fitting into both of these scenarios the struggling college student who never seems to have enough money!!
From what I have read, Stattera is a good med of choice if addictions are of concern. I would guess that if it were my daughter's or your's motive to get their hands on something to experiment with or sell that they wouldn't be too happy being perscribed Strattera and would make a stink about taking it with an excuse similar to what your daughter is using. I would tell her that everybody responds to meds differently and that what works for one may not for another visa versa. And take it from there.
As I shared with you, my plan is to make my daughter's doctor aware of her alcohol and weed use and REQUEST that he keep that in mind when perscribing anything for her. WE certainly do not want to encourage an addiction here but I cannot dismiss the reality that we have something going on here especially since her sister has Bipolar/ADD.
I just wanted to throw in my 2 cents worth and let you know that I am still a little bit behind you on the road but wanted to share my concerns with you since you seem to be going through the same situation as I am.
Again, I hope that I haven't offended you in anyway....the way I see it we're on the same team here and could use every set of eyes available to us to help us see what lies ahead.
Keep us posted with how things are going.
(((HUGS))) ~ Goody