Thanks again all! Now I'm starting to get real curious about this HSV 1 & 2 condition we share, it does seem many details are not readily available or maybe even known, however as I have mentioned I really do appreciate all of your responses, possibly someone's new post will answer a few more of our questions.
The reason that I think that I may have picked up my lady friend's HSV 2 from her genitals is because the sores that I had most recently were in my center lower lip area compared to the corner of my lower lip which is where my previously diagnosed & tested HSV 1 has presented itself for 30 plus years. Also the sores seemed more severe and did not seem to respond so well to the Zovirax cream that has worked well for 7-8 years or so. Having said this the sores were almost more like a pimple this time though with a little yellow head. Sorry to be so bit graphic but description seems necessary.
Also curious as to the statement that rare but possible oral HSV 2 would not occur again and it is unlikely that you could spread it? How could this be? Is this correct or did I misunderstand?
My attitude is that whatever I've got, I've got and will have forever so what else can I do but accept it right? Plus I am in a very, very good relationship which I expect will weather many storms so a little HSV 1 or 2 between intimate friends is acceptable to both of us, in fact it may even have created a tighter bond in that we know we want to be together even with this initial risk factor. But I would hope that even though I may have recieved HSV 2 from my lady that I will not give her my HSV 1 or possibly her HSV 2 again in a different location.
I hope we will receive some more posts to further this thread.