Well when they say it's too good to be true it probably is....right???

I noticed the past few times by phone that my daughter was back to her jumping from subject to subject. One day she had admitted (as I had guessed

) that she had forgotten to take her
Lamictal.
Well the other day when we spoke and was only on the Wellbutrin for less than a week she started telling me that her roommate told her that she was on it and it made her all emotional. I told her that everybody is different and that it was too soon to tell what the med could do. Well today when we were talking she said that she had already tried increasing the Wellbutrin (which is before the NP told her too) and that it wasn't working like the Adderall did. I told her that she should give it a chance and even the NP would agree that it was too soon to consider another med before giving this one a fighting chance. She went on to say that she knows what she is doing and that she should be able to do what she wants to do regarding meds and that she went to get her own doctor because she didn't want me interfering with her. I was hearing all the same argumentiveness and the "getting stuck hardheadedness" all over again that seemed to be better when she wasn't on the Wellbutrin. It is difficult to tell how things are going while she is away but I couldn't help but be concerned about her playing with the meds and not taking them as prescribed and thinking that she knows what is best for her. Everything I told her she cut down and she said that she new that the Adderall worked and that nothing else would...I told her that by Dr. Amen's treatment plan that it was decided to do the anticonvulsant (
Lamictal) and then try to add an antidepressant and then the Daytrana. She said that she knew that Adderall was the #1 ADD med and that was what she should be on....I told her that I had my concerns because it was addictive and that with her use of alcohol and drugs that I had my concerns about that and that there were just as effective meds such as the recommended Daytrana patch. She said that she needed the Adderall and I told her that since she was 14 she used caffeine and any stimulant that she could get her hands on such as Ephedra(diet pills).....she said that was what worked for her and that she needed it. I told her to talk to her NP and that she probably would agree with me, that she knew more than her roommate and wouldn't be pleased that she was not following her prescribed instructions. She said that she didn't care, that she knew what was best for her and that she wasn't going to tell me anything anymore and didn't have to. This was a complete turn around than before she started the Wellbutrin and it is almost as if it is making her worse in terms of behavior. I could tell by how argumentative she was being on the phone.
Any advice...she is 19 now and pointed that out.....I was about to schedule an appointment with the doctor from the AMEN clinic to conference in with the NP, my daughter and myself as a followup and was discussing this with my daughter when she brought this all up.
I am open to any suggestions.....
Thanks for listening ~ Goody