I think the point jschooly is trying to make is that she cannot get off the
tramadol. Tapering one pill a week sounds peachy, however she has tried and can't do it.
I agree with Tele - A very short term and low dose of Sub sounds like a good solution for you, jschooly. I too, have tried many times to taper and/or detox, with no success. I am entering Rehab on the 14th (July) and will finally get ahold of this addiction. I am a mom, wife, employed as well and understand how you feel about this... "I am simply an addict."
I live in Toronto and since Sub is not available in Canada yet, I can't even consider it, however I would if it were available. For you, I wouldn't take it for the long term, as you aren't at a high enough dose to justify. I would, however seriously consider it for a short term detox. I've heard it is the "wonder drug" for addicts. I have also heard (many many times) that it is very hard to get off. Some people will take it for the rest of their lives, but they are ok with that - while others do not want to take Sub forever, and find it hard to taper or stop.
Now, please don't think I am assuming your addiction is trivial - addiction is addiction, an addict is an addict - but you don't take as much as I did (or others have, who are on Sub) so just think about it, perhaps get a second opinion if you have the opportunity to see another Sub Dr. but it seems like it would help you
Whatever you decide, we're all here to help, and listen

From one mother to another, we always keep our families in mind when we make a choice of this magnitude, so perhaps you can look at the side effects and see if it sounds like the right choice for you.
Take it easy, and I hope you're doing well today
Love,
emsmom