I took about 5 different formulations of the pill (including OTC and the last 2 being monophasic types) and none of them worked well for me. I had headaches, bad acne, depression, weight gain, and no sex drive. Not my idea of fun.
After the birth of my son in 1997, I was given a copper type IUD (look at my webpage under "An Ectopic Pregnancy: The Failure of my IUD") but 2 years later endured an ectopic pregnancy in which it was removed.
I often get emails asking me what forms of birth control are available to women who don't do so great on the pill. Of course, there is always the diaphram and the cervical cap, but I tell women that the IUD is a great choice. I recommend them to get the Mirena type with the additional hormones that prevent pregnancy.
I also need to update my page when I get more experience with the new bc pills I'm taking called Yasmin. I'm currently on my 4th week of my very first pack so it's really too soon to tell about it.
I had an ititial break out of acne on my chin during week 2, and my breasts have been sore while on the yellow pills, but so far, no bloated feelings or weight gain which was my biggest fear. I'm going to give it about a good 4 to 6 months to see what the outcome is, but so far, so good.