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Old 07-25-2002, 12:05 AM   #6
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I'm hardly an expert, but I think it's wrong to assume that this is automatically Alzheimer's or dementia. You know, as we get older our memories sometimes start to fail us. And our hearing, too. Could it be Alzheimer's? Sure, it's possible. But you knew that before you posted this. But isn't it just as likely that she's just getting older? Holy cow, there's plenty of 77-year-old who don't hear so well and who sometimes forget things but who *don't* have Alzheimer's. Hell, there's plenty of people half that age who you could say that about. All I'm saying is, don't panic and leap to assumptions. See if you can talk to your doctor or some other professional about your concerns. But don't assume the worst.
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Old 07-25-2002, 07:02 AM   #7
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hey thank you soooooo much for the replies!

im certainly not assuming my grandma has dementia like i said there could be a possibility, its probably just old age i'll give it afew months and see how things go if it gets any worst i'll mention it to her doctor....GEEZ...u'll never believe she's 77 she looks about 55 and very active for her age she likes playing bingo, shopping, going out.etc.. If do say so myself i am i blessing for a granddaughter i will do any and everything for my grandma shopping, cooking, cleaning u name it, i've even cancelled my plans just to bewith my nan...i know alot of people who dont live with there but im very fotunate thats why it will hurt me even more the day she pasts away...shes more like the father i never had...i hope she never developes dementia its she a horrible thing, trust me i know i use to work with elderly people and over a third of them had dementia....well im not going to talk about it anymore it just makes me upset ..thanks once again

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Old 07-25-2002, 11:38 PM   #8
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Kashylah, hey hun. I just want to tell you I'm thinking of you My grandma is completely deaf in one ear and forgets things to. She doesn't have bad alzheimers, but I do catch her forgetting things whether it be what she just ate to something that happened a week ago. I know it's hard to realize that your grandma is getting old, but it's just a part of life (the hard part of life, that is). Just hang in there and seize the time you have with her now. Just remember...some people have mothers or fathers who don't even remember them. I'd rather have to shout at my grandma and remind her of things then have her not remember me at all. Just let her know a lot that you love her and don't let this worry you too much. I'll be praying for her, and you. Take care sweetie ~ and everyone including me is here for you whenever you need the help Take care.

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Old 07-26-2002, 09:16 AM   #9
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hi ashlee
thank you soooo much for ur reply u made me feel sooo much better, i know u and the rest of the people on this board are here for me. Thats what i love about this board...anyways...ur grandma sounds like mine, shes very forgetful its probably just her age maybe i was making a big deal out of nothing but thats what im like i worry about her too much becuase i love her...anyways im going to see how things go for abit thanx once again everyone xx

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Old 07-26-2002, 02:52 PM   #10
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Your Grandma is VERY lucky to have you!!! I work with elderly in a care center - I know that when someone is hard of hearing it is very easy to confuse dementia with the fact that the person hasn't heard a word you said - Today or any other day in the past months! So they seem confused. Sometimes a writing tablet the kind with a marker you can just swipe off with a tissue - helps alot. Elderly people also get confused when they are stressed out - the memeory short circuits. Stress for them can be reading the mail or getting a telemarketer on the line! Short term memory is always first to go in dementia and long term is last. Keep an eye on Granny. Watch for signs of buring food/forgetting burner is on and if she drives - try to give her a ride instead. This is stressful for her too - because they do know that something is wrong. If you see signs of her being unsafe - then check into an assisted living or care center - or if you have the time and ability you can help her but you can't stress out and watch her every minute!!! Not fair to you or her. Get her to a Dr. too - they have new meds like Aricept, etc... to help with memory loss.



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