I've been told by at least 4 different doctors that Azmacort is to be used typically 4 times a day, 2 or 3 puffs each time, as a regular routine.
You should also try Singulair. This has made a huge difference in my condition.
Rather odd that the Azmacort is affecting your personality, perhaps you are irritable because you are having your asthma or allergies. I definitely get irritable when I'm exposed to triggers. This is not an unusual reaction to a trigger.
Cat allergies can be serious. You should definitely see an allergist about your concerns with that.
Also, Albuterol is very strong. If you feel the need to use it as an emergency inhaler 3 to 4 times a day, I would suggest seeing a Pulmonary Specialist. You may have something very serious going on here that requires specialized care. Do not neglect getting the care you need to protect your lungs. We are talking about vital organs here.
Take Care now.
Sincerely,
Caring