Wow that's exactly around the same time I found out a year ago. (late December/early January). I know how you feel right now.In the begining it's very scary. I didn't know where to turn for support.
As far as your doctors suggesting that you get a tubal I think it is way to early to tell what these medications can do for you. Maybe you should seek a second opinion. They should not be crushing your dreams of having a baby now. It is to soon to tell where you will be in a year or two from now.
I think as long as you can get your ejection fraction back up to at least 50% you should have no problems but you will need to stay on some kind of medication though pregnancy. That is what I have been told. And Coreg is a wonderful drug.
I am waiting to hear now what this next cardiologist is going to tell me on the 29th. Even with them giving me the green light I am still a little scared. But that's where my panic disorder kicks into overdrive. The what ifs...
Anyway I will let you know what this next cardiologist tells me next Monday.
I am keeping my fingers crossed. I am also going to my GYN on the 24th to run this all by her so we will see.
Take care
Talk to you soon.