Karen,
I'm glad you mentioned your thoughts about starting a family. It is always in my mind right now.
I have had a few difficult years in the baby department -- two miscarriages in 2000 following a year of attempting to get pregnant. Several investigations led to me finding out that I had a hormonal problem-elevated prolactin. I was put on medication to get that under control and told to wait a couple more years before trying to get pregnant again. My endocrinologist gave us the green light in August...around the time I must have been getting very ill with AIHA (as far as I can figure). My periods had all but stopped and of course, I was too sick to conceive. Irony is a lovely thing.
Now, having talked to my internist (one treating me for AIHA), he thinks that the miscarriages could have had something to do with another immune problem (it's possible that my body developed antibodies to the babies), which isn't uncommon wth women with autoimmune problems. The treatment is prednisone, of course.
So what do I do now? I am obviously waiting until we can get a more definite picture of what will happen in the next 6 months or more with the AIHA. It needs to get under control before I do anything. I will ask my GP for a referral to a high-risk obstetrician and get that in the works. At the very least, I'd like a few more opinions on the matter.
Then, there's that nasty issue around me getting older. 33 isn't old but I'll be 34 in a matter of days and I don't want to be parenting a young baby much past the age of 40 or so. We've been married almost 8 years and have enjoyed the freedom that being childless brings, but of course, the heartbreak of watching my good friends having babies is always there, too.
There IS medication to help prevent osteoporosis. Little old ladies (like my beloved grandmother) take it all the time. It is incredibly expensive (I have the good fortune of being on a great drug plan and being Canadian with our controlled prices) so I can manage to pay for it.
Yeah, yoga and swimming were once a huge part of my life. I have been thinking that I'm not exercising and therefore getting weaker so when I do get out for a walk, I feel weak. Vicious cycle. I will remember to do only what I can for that day.
It's great talking to you,
Jackie