Cari,
What you are experiencing is normal by my standards. I had pretty blurry days for the first 3-4 months. The first couple weeks were the worst. They would be better one minute and worse the next. But, like sdv said, make sure the keep them well lubricated. I would suggest trying to stick to a schedule of every 2 hours just getting used to putting drops in. Get a timer, stop watch or if you have a cell that has an alarm you can set, use that. Alot of the blurriness can be linked back to dryness. And, your eyes will fluctuate day to day, week by week and even hour by hour or minute by minute. One eye may be great one day while the other one is a bugger and vice versa the next day. Just remember that your eyes are two seperate entities that work together but, after this surgery, they heal at 2 different rates. If you broke both of your arms or both your legs, they would heal at different rates and speeds as well...that is what my doctor told me.
I know it can be frustrating. One thing that some of the surgeons don't stress enough is that this is actually a pretty major operation. It seems like a simple procedure/operation because it is out-patient and quick. But, it is a small part of our bodies with a big job to do so, it is way more major than most people know. Just try to be patient. Try to rest your eyes as much as you can later in the day. Keep them well lubricated. Like sdv said, even if they don't feel dry, they might be. So, lubricate at least every 2 hours. If you need more for the first couple weeks or so, then do more but, try to get yourself on a wetting schedule so that your eyes start recognizing a routine. Even 11 months later, I still have to stick to a routine of using eye drops...but, I am not the rule. So, you may heal even quicker.
As for the fluctuations, your eyes will continue to change for even as long as 12 - 18 months. But, it is more common to see stabilization around the 6 month mark. I think right around 4 or 5 months post-op was when my blurriness started to clear up. But, even now, they are blurry first thing in the morning and for the first 5 minutes after I put my drops in in the AM.
So, be patient! I know it seems like alot to ask when the issue is your eyes but, do try!
Take care!