can not control but want it

[swfk]

Hi
I am 26 year male from Pakistan.
Till 22 year of age I was ok to sex, just feel it and few times a month I did mustribution for making me relax. never visited sex/porn sites or movies, never tried to attract girls or did attraction in them only worked for my future. but as I came in final year my friend made my mind change by giving me access to movies and now I have gf ( I want to leave but can not ) as need some one to talk on sex, want to explorer woman body (and many bad stuff come in my mind)

Now I feel that I do too much mustrubtion even 3 times a day by thinking sex with her as I touched her private parts by bad luck.

Now I am feeling out of control whole day sleepy and in night full of sex do 2 , 3 times mustribution to relax for sleep, can not study more.

I decide to get some pills / food to avoid sex from my body as I heard that army officer get this.
as I have no plan to marry in near future and do not want to sex now.

Any idea to control on sex by any mean.

thanks

[tommy124]

Actually, the best way to avoid sex and stay sane is masturbation.
Pills and starving will not help your body.
If I were you, I would study, masturbate, and go to sleep. Three times a day is pretty normal for a man your age. The problem is that you are staying up too late, not that you are masturbating. If you feel that your relationship is interfering with your studies, perhaps you should break it off, or decide whether the relationship is more important than your education to you, right now. The real conflict, other than that you feel guilty about things sexual, is that your mind is telling you that it is time to educate yourself, and your body is telling you that it is time for sex. Masturbation can be a good compromise, as long as it doesn't interfere with your studies.