I'll try to make this short. I'm unemployed and without insurance. I have not been to the dentist in about 3 years. About 3 weeks ago I went to a local free dental care day and got a filling done, because I knew I had 1 cavity (it wasn't hurting or anything) Due to the amount of people waiting for services, they did not have time to do a full exam but did say I it looked like I had some more cavities. It was an extremely painful experience, so I got some recommendations and picked out real dentist. They were having a special and did all the xrays and intraoral photos for $50 and a cleaning for $80. They showed me lots of "problems" on the photos and then had their financial lady take me into a private office and proceed to show me a treatment plan consisting of 14 fillings and 3 cores/crowns, and periomed at a price of $6037. I almost fainted dead away. I only have fillings in like 6 back teeth now, and have absolutely no problems with my gums. I have a nice smile. I am missing 1 molar due to neglect the last time I lost insurance.
Now for the good part. The financial lady had me pretty freaked out and I was crying. Wanted to put me on a payment plan.. I told her I would like to get second opinion and she quickly pulls up photos on the moniter of how bad my teeth are. Mind you, the finance person.... then she offered a discount if I would prepay $1700 and come back THAT AFTERNOON and get 4 fillings and a crown. That did it for me, and I paid my bill and left. I got in with my parents dentist two days later and gave him the itemized procedure sheet and he did some xrays on the supposed needed crowns, and checked all the "problems". He says I have just 4 cavities and I don't need any crowns..

He wanted to review the one xray closer because the tooth is fractured, they are going to let me know this week if that one needs a crown.
Anyhow I did not have him take the large amout of xrays the other place did and now I would like to give them all to him to double check. Do you think this first place is going to give me a major fit about going once, getting the xrays cause they were cheap and now I don't want to go back? I know state law is that they have to give them to me and can't charge more than they cost to reproduce. I would say that they did at least 25 of them so I don't know how much it would cost to get them. Probably a small fortune.
Thanks for any help and please give your opinions on the huge discrepancy on the diagnoses also.