Soory to hear that things are not going to well for you mccltd.
I have a visit scheduled for my Urologist, just to discuss options. I can feel as I pee restriction in the neck of the Penis so its wait and see what he says.
I am no Doctor but...as many others have said on this site the recovery time for a Turp is at least four months, often a lot longer and the pathway is different for everybody. I was fortunate to discuss the recovery path with someone who went throught it and he had discomfort around the bum area at odd intervals, sometimes lasting two or three days for more then a year after his operation.
His doctor, felt that it came from different things that caused movement in the sensitive area which stays inflamed for a long time. Going for a poo, sitting in the car for a lenght of time, on the couch. The slightest agitation would cause the discomfort for hours and sometimes days.
That explanation makes sense to me, I think it is easy to upset the inflamation and the consequences can often drain your confidence and have you thinking that all is going wrong. Its not, most of the time it is just a frustrating part of the healing process.
Anxiety is the enemy here, this whole process can really mess with your head. I often have the feeling that I will not be able to pee first thing in the morning and during the day I am certain things are slowing down, so I drink a bit more and the flow is stonger. Who knows?
Stay strong and positve, the only way to go forward, but hard at times.
If you wish... keep in touch and I will look in often and reply.
All the best.
Tom.