Hi Cat,
It is so nice to have someone that "really" understand your pain, thats why I like this board so much...

I hate when my friends say "I know how you feel I hate headaches"..

ha...It upsets me so much because they dont know how I feel, to live with this pain 24-7 is hell and they just dont understand...half of them dont even know what tmj is..
I am hear for you, if you need to vent go ahead...I always take it out on my boyfriend but dont mean to...He saids he understand my pain but he's not the one that has to live with it! It is tough I try to be strong but somedays I just break down in tears because the pain is so bad....I know you can understand that....I just wish there was no such thing as TMJ....
Wish you well,
Starr