Mainly this goes out to the guys but girls would be appreciated too!

[schoolgirl]

if anyone wants to read i would be very greatful thanks! ok well i want to do something special for my bf but i'm not ready to have sex. he has been talking about it and things that have to do with sex lately. i don't know if he wants to know how i feel about the topic or if he's hinting 'it'. he always talks about how it is a two person decision and he is willing to wait. he says he loves me and i think that him waiting proves it. i love him too and i want to do something for him just not sex, as his birthday is just around the corner. what can i do? someone said a lap dance but there has to be something better! any ideas? what do you guys like!i already got him a material present but i want to give him something more.

[zuzu8]

Hi schoolgirl-
You sound like a really sweet and thoughtful girlfriend.
A material gift is really enough, but why not post on the Teen Issues Board. I think you'll get a lot of imput there, from guys as well as girls.

zuzu xxxx

[schoolgirl]

thanks zuzu thats helpful of you!

[JAYB]

Treat him to a dinner at his favorite restaurant. A lap dance will just have him begging for more.

[greatgirl]

I agree, a lapdance would only lead him to want something you don't want yet.
Question is, how far are you with him yet? If you do anything but sleeping together,(fool around, petting etc.) then you can think of something like that for example. Or if you wanted to ask for a gift without innuendos, lol, then you probably could make him a sweet calendar with photos of yourself that he doesnt know yet, sexy photos but not too sexy, if you get the point.
Or blindfold him and don't tell him where the trip goes, and then you end up at a beautiful lake where u will have a birthday picknic and romantic boatride.