Hi Debbie,
BLAH just blow him off, sometimes it can take a LONG time to find a good Rheumy!! He obviously is a moron, don't you worry. The way I look at it is that he obviously isn't good with Lupus patients, so you DONT want him treating you because he may do it wrong! So don't fret, you can have as MANY consultations as you need to get diagnosed Debbie. That is your right as a patient! We will find you one!!
~Luv, Dana XO