It appears you have not yet registered with our community. To register please click here...


 Home Message Boards Health Guide Join for Free Testimonials Board Index
Search
 
Forgot your username or password?

Children's Health Message Board
Old 12-22-2003, 09:49 AM   #1
Beth*
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: FL,USA
Posts: 160
Question 3 Year old w/influenza A...in/out hospital!! Help!!

I donteven know where to begin with this nightmare we (my whole family) has been going through now for over two weeks. It started with my 10 yr old with a cold/cough. He got better, than I got bronchitis (or so I was diagnosed with it). Than, my 3 year old (who is only 30 lbs,and has moderate to severe asthma already) got a sudden fever of 105 that we could not get to budge. Than came the vomiting. Since he wouldnt really eat, it was mostly dry heaves, with bile and white foam coming out. He also had some coughing and some asthma issues (we are very familar with being in the hospital with him as every winter he seems to get dehydrated from colds/asthma). The fever concerned me....so of course upon going to the dr. they had us admitted to the hospital so they could try to get the fever down and get fluids in him. Upon arrival, we discovered he also had a double ear infection and very enlarged tonsils! To make a long story...as short as possible (I realize this is getting long and boring,sorry) we were there for approx. 3 days with iv fluids, antibiotics and stuff to keep the fever from going above 105. Than the swab came back positive for influenza type A. From what I understand this is a type of flu that has been killing people this year. It seemed like as soon as they knew it was the flu, they couldnt have discharged us faster. I feel they definately let us go home too soon. The first night home (Fri or Sat??), was miserable and we wound up calling the doc again and having to put him in the tub as his fever kept rising and wouldnt go down again. For now, it is going up and down. I am giving him feverall (suppositiories) and alternating with Motrin (by mouth) and this seems to work well. However, he has a hard time keeping the Motrin down by mouth and threw it up several times yesterday. The bath works...but only for short periods and than up goes the fever. It was such a struggle to keep it at like 103 yesterday that I am emotionally and physically exhausted too. I cant sleep, eat...or take care of myself in any way. My 10 year old is now showing signs of this as well although he can tell me when he doesnt feel good and what hurts. His fever has been around 100 after tylenol...(he can swallow pills). I am looking for anyone's advice and time frame for this with a small child! HELP....HELP....HELP!!!! I am at my wits end and dont want my little to wind up in the hospital again, right before or on Christmas no less. I still have so much shopping to do as well and at this point will be out Midnight this week trying to finish up not to mention wrap gifts. My 10 year doesnt and wont understand if Christmas "has to wait a few days" or whatever! I feel like I belong in a mental hospital myself right now....so any advice/stories etc...I am hoping will help! I just really would like to know when he will start to show signs of improvement. When I call the Dr. they are just telling me "it will run its course" but if you cant keep his fever at or below 105, he will have to be readmitted. Anyone's advice???? Sorry for the rant. THanks for any help!

Beth
__________________
**This too shall pass** (I hope)
Beth* is offline
 
Sponsors Lightbulb
 
   
Old 12-22-2003, 10:15 AM   #2
allaboutkids
Newbie
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 7
Re: 3 Year old w/influenza A...in/out hospital!! Help!!

I'm sorry for your ordeal (even more sorry for the kids). There is nothing I can say that your Dr I'm sure hasn't told you. But I would hope that next year you keep this in mind and get the family vaccinated for the flu. Children under 9 years old have to get the vaccine in two doses. It really is worth it.
allaboutkids is offline
 
Old 12-22-2003, 10:21 AM   #3
Beth*
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: FL,USA
Posts: 160
Re: 3 Year old w/influenza A...in/out hospital!! Help!!

Honestly...I had no idea that small children could get the vaccine. Yes, I will consider it for sure for next year. I have mixed feeling as i have heard of people getting sick from the vaccine itself, as isnt it a live virus??? Thanks for your concern and support! Any support at this point is positive as I am literally going crazy between the two kids. My husband had to go back to work today (someone has to make money right?) and I am now handling it all on my own...its just draining and its only 9 am. I have already dealt with taking temps, making sure they both are drinking fluids, forcing meds into them both and just basically making sure they are both (expeically the 3 yr old as he is more critical) comfortable with low fevers and not high!

Yikes...if I can get through today....I can get through mostly anything that is for sure. Hopefully after my Husband gets home today...my Mom and I are going out to the mall to finish the Christmas shopping. Believe it or not...I am looking sooo forward to the mad rush of Christmas.

Beth
__________________
**This too shall pass** (I hope)
Beth* is offline
 
Old 12-22-2003, 01:18 PM   #4
maybe helpful
Senior Veteran
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: New Mexico
Posts: 511
Re: 3 Year old w/influenza A...in/out hospital!! Help!!

The vaccine can be given in children 6 months and up safely. It is not a live virus, it is a dead one, and can not cause you to have the flu. HOWEVER, if you have a fever at the time of vaccination they will not give it. Also, keep in mind the NEW vaccine Flumist IS a live virus, so the safest route is the shot vaccine.

I live in the New Mexico/Colorado Area, were SEVERAL children have died. PLEASE keep right on top of this, DEFINITLY for your son with asthma. It IS a deadly virus this year, and if you feel as if you NEED him to go back to hospital, DONT hesitate to take him. And also your 10 year old. If you feel they need help, need hospitilization, do everything you can to get them there.

However, for next year, flu shots are safe and recommended, especially for kids with asthma.

Good Luck, your in my prayers and thoughts.
__________________
Good Luck and Be Safe
maybe helpful is offline
 
Old 12-22-2003, 01:28 PM   #5
Beth*
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: FL,USA
Posts: 160
Re: 3 Year old w/influenza A...in/out hospital!! Help!!

[Thanks...........

Believe me....I am staying on top of it and constantly feel as though I am calling the doctors etc. Obviously my 3 year old would rather be at home! He rips out the oxygen and ivs etc....it is just rough all around!! If I my 3 yr old doesnt get better or seem any more responsive by tomorrow...I suppose he is going back in. It is just hard on all of us as it effects the whole family! I will do whatever I have to do to keep my child well!

THanks for your input, it is appreciated!
Beth
__________________
**This too shall pass** (I hope)
Beth* is offline
 
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off











All times are GMT -4. The time now is 09:30 AM.


Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comTM
Copyright and Terms of Use © 1998-2009 HealthBoards.comTM All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!