I just wanted to say that I used and abused all drugs very heavily for years. I overdosed on them more than once. I put my husband and kids through living hell. I would be on the street at 2am making drug buys with my 2 year old twins in the back seat. My husband turned me in. It was the toughest thing he ever had to do. The county/state took the kids away and put them into protective custody. I was court ordered into treatment, and when I got out I had to take piss tests to prove I was clean. As we know addiction is not about love. I went through parenting classes, individual counceling, marriage counceling, na meetings etc. But I continued to use the day I got out of treatment. However, I knew how to beat a piss test so I was able to jump through the hoops and get custody of my kids back. My poor husband just kept his mouth shut after that and rasied the kids on his own while I did my wild parting. Eventually I started od, and haveing lots of problems due to drugs. 8 years latter I finally turned to God where my marriage was healed and I have been delivered from drugs and alcohol for over 10 years now. Eventually she will get sick and tired of being sick and tired and want change bad enough. Hopefully that will come before she kills herself. I would recomend that she get lots of counceling and help but I wouldn't hold my breath on it working until she is reay to fight to stay clean. Hang in there and just be the best Dad you can be. Sometimes that does mean letting go for the children's sake. You will know in your heart what the best thing to do is. I will pray that you have lots of wisdom and direction from God in dealing with this situation.
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