I've also done the conditioner thing, but what seems to work best for me is...
I put thermasilk conditioner in my hair, and before you put it in your hair, about 10 min. before, put a towel in the dryer. When you get the conditioner on your hair, put a shower cap on, and then put the hot towel on your hair. When it feels like its getting cold (the towel), already have another towel in the dryer. Or just use a HOT water soaked towel. Might be a little more complicated, but it sure helps my hair when its looking a little abused.