Hello
I went to my doctors after being told that going onto clomid would help your af to return, my doctor would not give this to me as she said i had not been off depo long enough (true point).
according to my doctors you have to have been of depo for over 18 months and then if af has not returned they may concider another form of treatment.
Believe me, i know exactly what your going through - not knowing if you could be pregnant as you have not missed a period and really really wanting this.
I have spent a fortune on home pregnancy tests due to swelling breasts and feeling sick as well as bloating but apparently these are the after effects some people get after coming off depo.
If you go to your doctor good luck, mine didnt want to know untill may 2006!!!