I hope you're feeling better now. Sorry no one has responded to you yet!
Here's what I think -- I think you ate too much at one time and made matters worse with the wine. At four weeks out I ate a bunch of chocolate and boy, was I sorry about THAT! Horrible pains (and I was at a concert at the time!) so I drank a lot of water and that helped.
I realized it just takes more time, so was careful after that and ate small meals without much fat, etc., pretty much the way I'd eaten for a year prior to the surgery.
Now I can eat anything and have wine with no problem. I still wouldn't eat a giant meal, though, because during all of the gall bladder stuff I lost weight so probably shrunk my stomach, too. Big meals all at once are not good for anyone, anyway.
Take heart -- within a few more months you will be feeling a whole lot better and probably not be as likely to experience odd and frequently painful events. I told my gastroenterologist about some bizarre pains I'd had and he said NOTHING I told him was alarming. He, too, had his gall bladder out,though many years ago, so he knows what we can go through. Everyone is a little different but most of us have some residual effects at least for awhile.
Good luck to you!!!