In my book 56 is way too young to be told to go home and try to stay comfortable. My dad went from being completely healthy 3 weeks ago, to staying in bed all day, tired and feeling crummy from chemo, not eating, and taking pain pills around the clock. We are leaving to go to Sloan Kettering cancer center in New York next week, and I am worried about my dad even making the trip. His health seems to be deteriorating so quickly. I am not sure if this isn't in part to the chemo. He was only diagnosed 3 weeks ago. This seems unbelievable, and at the same time VERY unacceptable to me. We are from nc, so this is going to be a long trip to ny city. I have done a lot of research on this hospital, and they are doing a lot of new things also-like the RFA, alcohol injection,and crofreezing. I just hope that some of this may work for us. I am beginning to prepare a list of questions to ask the doctor, do you have any questions that may be helpful in asking the doctor? There are just so many, I don't know where to begin.