Beth98, I understand your thoughts. My father was diagnosed in April, began chemo and radiation in May. His Cancer was in both Lungs, Liver, Adrenal Glands at that time. Now, after the first series of Chemo, it has continued to spread. We are now using a second line Chemo (I see we because I have assured him that if he wanted to continue this fight I would be with him every step of the way). We had the quality of life discussion with his Doctor and my Father has decided to gamble and continue with treatment. Just be there for your Mother, enjoy all of the time that you have with her. Please see my postings for more info.
Good luck and Praying for miricles,
tracy62061