Hi,
I'm new to this board, so hi! Anyways, I find a lot of people have narcassistic personalities. I hate to say it but the best way to get back at a person with this type of personality is to get them where it hurts. Basically, exploit their weaknesses indirectly. For example, if you have a girlfriend that is always starting arguments just to argue. First, tell her about a movie star who you think is beautiful and talented. Then lament about her talents and looks and how she gets everything. I do this while I'm laughing inside. Next, always be humble about your talents. When a narcassist happens to step over your line because they are envious, mention how excellent, or I should say "better" something else is. It's great for me and bad for them. The narcassistic personality individual will always be in competition with the world because they weren't made with talent or looks and will always envy the ones that do. I'd hate to say it, BUT ONLY hang with people in your own league. Leaves these people to eat the dirt of your car as you drive away. I hate to be evil, but you have to do this in order to succed in life. There will always be another ******* behind that one. So if you want to go straight to the top and not regret anything on your deathbed, it's time to cut away people who are not in your own cliche. For example, you often see the successful people only hanging with the people from their own leagues. When you lower your bar and hang with people that can't hold a candle to you problems arise. And you wonder why there are so many problems in your relationship or place of work. Even in the work place, forget about heiarchy. If you have a million dollar idea, it's yours! Screw the envious ***** or guy next to you just because they didn't think of it. In order to be at a high level in life, you have to ignore the scum. Thank You.