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Old 03-14-2006, 11:50 PM   #1
NHBFAN
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Boss doesn't feel sinusitis is a valid reason to miss work

I feel awful.

What do you think?
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Old 03-15-2006, 02:17 AM   #2
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Re: Boss doesn't feel sinusitis is a valid reason to miss work

NHBFAN,

Considering the creative excuses that people come up with for missing work, if you're missing work frequently your boss has no reason to believe that you have a legitimate reason for not going in.

Do you bring in doctor's notes at least some of the time, to show that you do indeed have an ongoing problem?

Do you have the opportunity to "make up" the time you lose when you are sick? Some jobs require people to be there at specific hours (restaurant work, health care, telephone answering, etc) and it creates a hardship on the business when someone suddenly calls in sick just before their shift starts. If this happens regularly, you cannot expect your boss to just take your word for it that you feel lousy and cannot work -- the business suffers and your boss ain't going to like it. In these kinds of jobs even offering to make up the time isn't going to help your boss because there are too many times when an important job position isn't covered.

I'm not making light of your genuine suffering. I'm merely pointing out why your boss may not take too kindly to your calling in sick. You may need to bring in some "proof" from a doctor or clinic to show that you have a legitimate excuse, and you're not just taking a day (or days) off for shopping, visiting with friends, watching a big sports event on tv, a trip to somewhere more pleasant than work, etc. Lots of people lie about being sick -- you will need to find some way to convince your boss that you are being honest. And even then, if your frequent absence creates too great a hardship on the business, he's still not going to look kindly on your situation.

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Old 03-15-2006, 02:32 PM   #3
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Re: Boss doesn't feel sinusitis is a valid reason to miss work

Rheanna has made some very good points. Doctor's notes are always a good idea.

If this is a one time thing, and you usually never miss work, I'd tell your boss to shove it, and get a doctor's note if you have to. Who is he to say how bad you feel?

If this is a chronic thing, how much work have you missed? If it is a lot, then you need to emphasize to your doctor that your sinusitis is interferring with your work. Remind the doctor how long it has been going on. They often read just the tops of the charts and forget how much time has truely passed. If you are dealing with just a regular doctor, you need to get a referral to an ENT as soon as possible. If you haven't done so, you are long overdue for a CT scan of your sinuses, and perhaps allergy testing. You might need surgery or allergy shots to resolve this.

As far as your boss goes, he makes me angry. Obviously, he has never had to deal with sinus problems. A nicer person would say they wouldn't wish it on their worse enemy. I guess I'm not that nice. My sister called me a whiner for years, until our family history finally caught up to her and she developed allergies and sinsus problems. Instead of sympathy, I felt vindicated.

If it is a chronic problem, tell your boss that you are really ill, and even though you have been given a diagnosis of sinusitis you are looking into other diagnosis because you truely feel horrible. You don't actually have to do that, just make him think that you are doing that. For someone like him, who thinks sinsusitis is no big deal, that will impress upon him that your situation is serious.

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Old 03-21-2006, 06:16 AM   #4
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Re: Boss doesn't feel sinusitis is a valid reason to miss work

If you aren't in the hospital, then you need to be at work. That is the bottom line. You aren't a child. Try to act a little bit more like a grown-up. If I were your boss I would fire you. If your illness is not transmittable to others then you owe it to your company to show up for work.
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Old 03-21-2006, 03:21 PM   #5
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Re: Boss doesn't feel sinusitis is a valid reason to miss work

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Originally Posted by Erdrick
If you aren't in the hospital, then you need to be at work. That is the bottom line. You aren't a child. Try to act a little bit more like a grown-up. If I were your boss I would fire you. If your illness is not transmittable to others then you owe it to your company to show up for work.

What a load of crap! Just because he isn't contagious ,doesn't mean he is in any shape to go to work. There's no reason why he can't take a sick day or 2 when recovering from an acute sinus infection. That's what they're for.

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