Robyn,
I am new here, but I have been diagnosed with bipolar for over 15 years. Some bipolars do have the symptoms you describe, they occur during mania, but you will not find them in classic textbooks on the subject. Bipolars are afraid to describe them to docs entirely, because of hospitalization issues. BUT...
Also your bf should be evaluated by a dr, because some of these symptoms can occur when psychosis, a break with reality occurs. They indicate a need for narrowing the diagnosis and could worsen. Sounds as though your bf may have either bipolar with psychotic features or may be schizoaffective, or could have been misdiagnosed and actually be suffering from schizophenia, or his meds may even be contributing to the problems he is having. I, nor anyone here, is qualified to make that kind of diagnostic decision, so if possible see if you can get some professional help for your bf, let drs know the symptoms he is having. I hope you will be able to do this soon.
zionsP