Hi there
I am not pregnant yet but I can relate to your story. I would like to TTC but I have hypertension (it is always much higher at the doctor's office than at home and every doctor I have seen is fixated on the numbers they see in the office. I aways monitor my blood pressure at home and my readings are always completely normal) I was placed on an ACE inhibitor for my blood pressure a couple of years ago and recently because I want to try to get pregnant I was switched onto Methyldopa because it is safe to take while pregnant, unlike the ACE inhibitor. Anyway being on Methyldopa has dramatically lowered my blood pressure at home but at the doctor's office it is still around 146/96 (at home my numbers are 110's-120's/60's-80's) She keeps freaking out about the numbers she sees in the office and claims that if I were pregnant, me or my baby would die and I would have preeclampsia and possibly start to have seizures. I realize that this is the worst case senario but it is still scary none the less. Anyway to make a long story short, she is sending me to a specialist who deals with high blood pressure in pregnancy which I am quite happy about, I hope she can provide me with some better information.
Are you currently taking any medication for your bp? Are you monitoring your bp at home? If so, are your numbers okay? Bringing this information with you might help your docotr realize that your bp is normal most of the time. It sounds like you are getting good care, but I know how it feels to not have people understand that your bp is otherwise under good control.
Good luck and keep me posted with your pregnancy goes because I know I will be dealing with this same issue when my time comes.