I am 28 and have been diagnosed with epilepsy since 13.For the past 10 years I have been on tegretol, dosages vary but now on 400mg/day. Recently, I have started considering having kids, but I have always heard about birth defects with tegretol. I went to see the dr. the other day with some general questions about this and he was horrid! he told me I couldn't have kids, DON'T get pregnant, etc. etc. He is a GP, and when I asked him if he had ever had firsthand experience with women and preg. and tegretol, he said no. How nice. I am just sick about this now. I take folic acid everyday, just in case the unforseen happens, but was wondering about a few things...How much folic acid would a person in my situation take? Is my dosage particularily high when thinking about preg.? What about going off for the first trimester-it wouldn't be my first choice, I now experience grand mal seizures and am completely out for 45 mins or so, its not pleasant. I've read a lot of comments from women saying their kids are fine, no problems, but has anyone out there suffered problems? An finally, anyone who has helpful sites, or any information I would love to personally hear from them kri25sti@hotmail.com