My doctor told me that Asthma and Reactive Airway Disease are both the same thing. Your description of “tightness” sounds like Asthma to me.
I had trouble finding a corticosteroid that worked for me too. Most of them made me feel like I had cotton in my lungs caused me to hack and cough. Advair was the one that finally worked for me. Just to correct Tichtou, Advair does not contain albuterol which is a short acting beta agonist. It contains a long acting beta agonist called salmeterol (Serevent). I use Advair twice a day, when I get up and when I go to bed, so it's easy to remember when to take it. I also have albuterol as my rescue inhaler.
You might want to look into allergy testing or the use of another pill called Singulair. My dad has COPD and his doctor gave her a nebulizer, but he hated it. So, they tried to give him a portable nebulizer and he refused to use it too. So, he switched to Spiriva. It seems to be working well for him. I think it's the same line of drug as Advair.
I totally sympathize about taking so many drugs. Between my medications for my asthma, hypertension, hypothyroidism, GERD, rheumatoid arthritis, allergies, and restless leg syndrome my medicine cabinet is pretty full!
I hope you find something that works for you soon.