CJ
Yes, I was diagnosed through mammogram. Never felt a thing ,either.-Thank God for mammograms! In my case, it was a lifesaver.
I almost thought I had escaped the family "curse" as I was 48 when dxed, and was starting to feel I would not get breast cancer, like my mom, maternal grandma and aunt. - Thankfully, my mom is a 28yr survivor, at age 83 and my aunt is an 8yr survivor.- Hope I will be "lucky," like them.
I tested negative for the BRCA gene, but my onc still wants my ovaries out, since I was estrogen/progesterone positive.- My female relatives were all late menopause, so I think I probably will go ahead and do the surgery.- Yes the hot flashes are a real pain!! I was taking Gabapentin for awhile and it helped but made me have balance problems. - glad to know there are other things, like effexor to try. - Right now I am just living with it and will see if it gets better or worse after the ooph.
Yes, we all need to stick together and help each other. Keep in touch!
Hugs,
Leea