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Old 06-10-2007, 03:04 AM   #1
selena24
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my heart is breaking

a week ago i started having horrible pain and itching on my genitals. i could barely walk it hurt so bad. i didn't find out what is was until a few days later and i was diagnosed with herpes. i have been with my husband for 5 years so i couldn't figure out what happened. but here is the saddest thing i am going through. 5 days after i starting with my genital herpes my four year old daughter contracted it on her genitals. i am mortified and can't stop crying. i would never do anything sexual to my child. she is my life. we went to the doctors and went over the whole conversation with her of if anyone has every touched her down there or did anything in that area. it was a horrible day but the doc came to the conclusion there was no foul play. i am a stay at home mom. i am with my kids all day. she is never really with anyone else. i feel like i'm gonna lose it. i can't stand to see her in so much pain. how does mother and daughter get genital herpes five days apart? how? please someone help me understand. oh also both of us have mouth and tongue pain too. this is all to weird. please help me understand. thankyou.
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Old 06-10-2007, 05:28 AM   #2
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Re: my heart is breaking

wow i dont know what to say to that ...nothing anyone can say can make you feel better Im sure. Maybe you should seek counselling cause it seems as if you need someone to talk to. Or hopefully you can find someone on the forum in a simlar situation.
BUt there are alot of treatments out there that would make life less painful for your and your daughter. i hope things improve for you
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Old 06-10-2007, 11:08 AM   #3
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Re: my heart is breaking

Herpes is very contagious and you could have had it on your hand or you could have kissed her and she spread it from her mouth to herself in the genital area. Most people don't know that it can spread through cold sores to the genital area. Cold sores are herpes(usually hsv1) and genital herpes can be either hsv 1 or 2. But there's just no way of knowing exactly how this spread around but it does spread very easily.
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Old 06-13-2007, 03:49 AM   #4
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Re: my heart is breaking

Okay, this maybe isn't possible, but some years ago i was watching a documentary and they mentioned something about women who have the oral herpes virus in their system can pass it onto their babies during the birthing. What i'm wondering, is this possible with type 2?

You say you have been with your husband for 5yrs and i'm 'assuming' you got your herpes virus off of him? Perhaps you caught the herpes off him and have been carrying it all along, if then it could be passed onto your child during birth, perhaps your daughter has had it all along and it is a mere coincidence that you have gotten your o/b's a week apart?

What test did they do to determine whether your daughter actually had the virus? or did they simply 'assume' it was herpes due to your recent outbreak?

I know this is easier said than done, but please don't stress. I am fully aware of how this virus is to have and it can be most uncomfortable, but i figure it's worse if you have never had it and then suddenly get it in adult life, whereas most children who grow up with a certain condition tend to cope with it far better as they have known no difference from baby to adult.

If it is most definitely herpes, do you know which type, 1 or 2? There are ointments to relieve stinging and itching which can be applied. Do not blame yourself as that wont get you or your daughter anywhere as this is such an easy virus to catch/spread and this situation can happen to anybody. Keep strong and keep us posted on how you get along.
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Old 06-14-2007, 12:39 AM   #5
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Re: my heart is breaking

(Audrey-B) thanks for your reply. my test came back positive for herpes but they never tested the type. it's so weird to me that my daughter got it 5 days later. she got a test done to verify but docs said it looks definent that it is herpes. they r testing her type. i'm having a hard time understanding how this happened. i'm so upset that my daughter has this and obviously i gave it to her since our outbreak was so close together. how will she live a normal life. i ruined it for her. wish i knew exactly how i gave it to her. i didn't know till days after my outbreak it was what i had. i thought it was poison ivey cause a 5 to 7 days before that i was covered in poison ivy. i hate to see my little girl going throught this. i hope she doesn't hate me when she is older. well thanks again for your reply. if you have anymore info let me know.

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