Elaine, I also added your site to my favorites. That letter was right on! I heard from my son and he is OK. He won't be able to come home though. But I can live with that as long as he's OK. Right after he caalled this AM, I received a phone call with some more news. Another family crisis that I won't go into, but it's pretty devistating. I turned my Christmas tree lights on and they all went out! My family Christmas get together is THis coming Sun. and I don't have all the gifts made that I need, also, I have to cook some stuff to carry. I woke up several times last night aching worse than normal. Couldn't get moving this AM because of the flair I knew was coming. Now all this other on top of it, I think I'm going to "crash and burn"! So, until I'm in a better frame of mind and body, I'll just try to conserve what energy I can find, and hope this one doesn't last too long. I'll be thinking of you all...Linda D (P.S. I had this written once and was ready to post when something went wrong and it got deleted, so this is the second time I'm posting this!!)