
Hi David,
Sorry to hear about your pain, and your wait to see the rheumatologist. I have psoriatic arthritis and it affects my neck, elbows, wrists, fingers, knees, ankles and toes. Every day is different, every day something hurts but not all of the joints at the same time. I have been on dmards (leflunomide, methtrexate etc and I am currently on steroids. I am 49 also.
It certainly sounds awful for you, and hopefully you will get something from your visit, but in the meantime can you get diclofenac? Can you take that? Some people cant, but I have it for pain and it is very good. The Dmards help to alleviate the arthritis getting worse but are not painkillers, you also need something to help the pain. Other people may have other ideas, everyones arthritis affects them in different ways and the drugs affect people in different ways.
The damp weather makes my arthritis worse, dont get cold, for example I sat in a friends garden on Friday night with others and didnt have the nerve to say can we go in, so I got frozen. Saturday and Sunday have been awful, all my joints are swollen and burning and I ache badly. I should have spoken up and asked everyone to go in, but I didnt want to be a nuisance.
Do not over do it, I have had to give up work as it was all (after 4 years of struggling) too much for me. I have children and grandchildren and sick mum and sick father in law, so working as well was just wearing me out.
If you have any other questions, this forum is excellent. Thinking of you. Hope you get sorted in October.
Ronnie