Ken,
Not sure if I understood your post correctly. Did they do two fasting blood glucose tests, one of which was 130 and the other 169? If so, you are not pre-diabetic but are, in fact, in the early stages of T2 diabetes. That doesn't mean you can't control it with diet and exercise, and your A1c's show very excellent control, but if your doctor called it "pre-diabetes" with those fasting numbers, I would see another doctor! The gold standard for diagnosing T2 has been, for many, many years, two fasting blood glucose levels of 126 or more. Pre-diabetes is when your fasting bg's are in the 100-125 range.
Why is this important? Well, there are a couple of reasons. First, as Canada pointed out, T2 is often progressive, and you should be seeing a doctor more often. It sounds as if this doctor has been less than thorough in educating you as to how to manage this disease and in following up. You should definitely be seen at least every 6 months.
Second, with a diagnosis of diabetes and a scrip from a doctor, your health insurance will most likely pay for the meter and the test strips, which means you can then get a good meter. Many of the brand names are excellent. I personally use the One Touch Ultra by Lifescan, but the Freestyle and the Accu-check are also excellent meters.
Ruth