Well I honestly I couldn't tell anyone hey you are obese unless I seen them....if you are kinda chuncky like Ricki Lake now not before , the way she is now she's not obese. I would have to say if your belly hangs over your P*SSY (pardon my french) you are obese. If you can see it and you don't have titties hangin down your back you're not obese...LOL
Seriously everyone is built diffrently it's all a matter of where you carry your weight.