Hi alazay.
I know exactly how you feel! I have been terrified of the demon dentist for years. ( apologies go out to all you dentists out there!lol!)
I used to be put out for any treatment, then, here in the UK they banned most dentists from doing that.
I then had to take large doses of tranx to cope, (I have had a huge ammount of work done).
Now I am waiting to see an orthadontist to have some more treatment.
people just assume that we are just a little afraid of our dentists, well if that were true I wouldn't be sat here with toothache, again!
my advise is to do what you can to cope, meds, hypnotherapy, anasthetic!lol!
good luck to you! and please don't feel silly having this fear, after all they don't exactly do nice things to us do they?lol!
Jules