colarsky, seeing as how you're a parent, I hope you heed this message: please don't necessarily believe what the doctors say about your daughter. Once one doctor said I had ADD, it was all over my parents thought i had it too cuz they couldnt think for themselves on that subject. plus they knew nothing about it, they just knew that i wasnt doing too hot in school. And for the record even after i went on medicine i did bad at that school (it was private school) now im at public and have like a 3.4 GPA. And plus, to me, 4 years old seems WAAAAY too young for your daughter to have ADD. 4 year olds still have wonderful imaginations, she probably doesnt pay too much attention because her mind stil has the ability to cook up more interesting things, an ability that i must say depreciates as you age. Anyway I hope u take my advice on YOU being the judge on whether ur daughter has ADD or not and i wish you and your family the best of luck. dont let it tear you apart.