What you say sounds very much like my boyfriend. He is 32 and is very messy, stutters or has a hard time getting words or sentences out and a lot of time I don't understand him when he gets like that. He is very unorganized i.e., time management always late, always forgetful, he has very sporadic sleep patterns--meaning he may not sleep more than 4 hours in one night, not to mention that we have a hectic sex life in that sometimes we have "dysfunction" when it comes to loosing an erection and he has a very low sex drive. He told me he has ADD, but he isn't on medication it. He is on anit-depressants because he deals with depression. I myself aren't clear on whether or not he truly knows this is true, but he said they told him this in school. I get very frustrated with him...what to do?