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Old 11-16-2002, 01:54 AM   #1
torifan03
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I'm kind of confused about my virginity. My boyfriend's penis was inside of my vagina for a little bit, enough that i felt the pain and later on i noticed that i bled (hymen broke). we didn't continue with it, for reasons linked to his medication (antibiotics) and what not. anyhow, we didn't really have sex, well, not all of the way. to him, he feels like a virgin still. but i'm not sure about myself. any thoughts?
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Old 11-16-2002, 03:11 AM   #2
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You are no longer a virgin once his penis has penetrated you regardless of how long it was inside.
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Old 11-17-2002, 03:17 PM   #3
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Orgasm and ejaculation dont have to occur for sex to happen.

From my dictionary by by keyboard. The Merriam Webster Dictionary
Sexual intercourse: Intercourse betweena male and a female in which the penis is inserted into the vagina.
Virgin: a person who has not had sexual intercourse.

Any doctor will tell you that she is no longer a virgin because a penis has been in her. Time,movement,orgasm,and ejaculation arent counted in when deciding this.

From a dictionary site.
virgin: A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.
Sexual intercourse: Coitus between humans.
Sexual union between humans involving genital contact other than vaginal penetration by the penis.
Coitus:Sexual union between a male and a female involving insertion of the penis into the vagina.


I could go on and on with various dictionary sites but I think I put enough up to prove the point.
No you are no longer a virgin.

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Old 11-17-2002, 03:40 PM   #4
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AMEN!!! I was unable to have complete intercourse with my first real sexual experience but believe my I was not a virgin after this one attempt and that was years ago. The definition of virgin has certainly not changed over the years.
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Old 11-18-2002, 01:36 AM   #5
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This method, called the withdrawal method, AKA pulling out, AKA coitus interruptus, is a totally ineffective method of pregnancy prevention. After a guy is aroused, and during sexual activity, pre-ejaculatory fluid, AKA precum, is secreted from the urethra. The purpose of this fluid is to neutralize the urethra so the sperm can survive. This fluid contains - you guessed it - SPERM! And as we all know, sperm can very well impregnate a woman. While the amount of sperm is considerably less than released during ejaculation, there is still a significant chance of pregnancy. Consider this: An average of 300 million sperm are released during ejaculation. If one tenth of that amount is released in the precum, that's still 30 million sperm, and it takes only ONE to get pregnant, so wrap it up boys! Another interesting fact: A girl who doesn't use protection during sex has a 90% chance of getting pregnant during the first year.

The highest number of sperm are in the first drops of ejaculate. Pre-ejaculate (also known as precum) can carry thousands of active sperm. The pull out method has a high failure rate because of this. Even a few drops of semen close to your vagina can result in pregnancy. The sperm will travel with your natural cervical mucous quickly swimming to reach an egg.
HMMMMMMMMMMMMM guess these refernces I have must be wrong or is it the other way around.......these references are right and the other poster is wrong?
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