There are many different types of HPV. Some types will give you warts and some have no symptoms. It doesn't sound at all like you have HPV. As far as I know, warts would be the only symptom of it. See a gynecologist. Your family doctor doesn't seem as knowledgeable as he should be if he can't tell you what it is. Go to a doctor that you're comfortable with. Good luck and try to relax.