hi, im a 14 and a male, usually most guys get it, but i get these cuts above my nails, my mom says its cause i expose them to water too much and they dry too quickly, and i just want my hand to look better because my girl is always looking at then when we play around, so any suggestions of how i can heal them? the skin that are supposed to be attached to the nails are tearing and they sometimes sting alot, so help would be appreciated, thank you