Hi Petie,
I will help if I can but first a little about myself.
I suffered a stroke on the 26/8/99. It was caused by an arterial clot, bilateral in that both sides of my body were affected. This was complicated with an intra cerebral bleed (haemorrage) between the cebellum and brain stem.
I was in a coma for 5 days, quadruplegic for 4 weeks, learnt to walk in 5 weeks. I have no known speech or memory problems, have regained my drivers license and returned to work part time. All this when I was not expected to live or at best not much better than a vegetable.
I have a story posted at [url="http://tbichat.org/stories/peter_b2.htm"]http://tbichat.org/stories/peter_b2.htm[/url]
from there you can email me if you like.
All the best to your mother and I hope her recovery goes well.
Peter